Yea, my points were for the board in general. You specifically? I would advise you to find the highest paying job and if you're not married find the highest paid woman you can find who is frugal, hard working and honest (and if they're crazy pre-marriage - they will be 3x crazier post marriage - however, given your situation, you can't be picky ----go for the highest paid woman and hope for the best).
Pay off debt -----you are owned by the people who lent you the money.
Make money - marry money. My Net Worth was $70k as a 34 year old bachelor - I married someone who made +$100k per annum (and is frugal and honest) ----I got a few raises over the years, and now at ~50 years old my Net Worth will hopefully be $3 million at 12/31/19 with two very expensive kids.
Online dating works - you just need to present well to land a whale ---get your fat arse in the gym---no woman I am describing will be attracted to a bum. Look for keywords like: Medical----no doctor is going to say she's in Residency----she's going to say she's in the "medical field." And is studious(sp?) and has a "professional" level degree.
You're effing welcome.