Very well put OHinTN. I'm 41 years old and ashamed to admit it took me way too long to figure that out.
Chicago Connection, I have a question for you. Lets say you have a really cool house. I'm your best friend and I really, really love hanging out at your house. Someone offers to buy your house and you'll make $30 million on the deal. Acting out of self-interest (as every sensible, rational human should), you sell the house and take the money. Now, acting out of self interest, I'm super pissed at you for taking all that money and selling YOUR house because I really, really liked hanging out there. Who is the jerk in that scenario?