He might have been among those who felt burned when Urban left coaching for the sake of his family
Read that again. Whoever the burned can kick rocks.
It's been documented that Urban was killing himself and distancing himself farter and farther away from his family. He needed that time away and everyone says how he is so different now in the way he approaches things and how much happier and balanced he seems at Ohio State. It was just great timing for both tOSU and Urban. Who knows if Urban would have ended up coaching again if Tressel wasn't let go. The SEC is just salty that Urban left the "best conference" in college football and is building a powerhouse program at a powerhouse university surrounded by top talent and still picking top talent from the south.
Florida and the SEC can blame Urban all they want, he gave them two national titles and started the whole SEC dominance trend. He doesn't owe them anything.