In my post above I talked about my time in the military. What we did when there were very few females does not cross over to the way things are done when females are a large part of our organization. You have to adapt. They did not. As an all male organization prior to 1973, you could probably get away with what their culture was. Being "integrated", it does not work. Sorry, but that is the way it is. Not saying you still can't have fun, just adjust it appropriately.