I don't know where I implied I support violence against women. I don't support violence against anyone, that was the point of my post. Just because someone is smaller and less physically capable DOES NOT give them the right to use physical violence. It is ALWAYS unacceptable. It's not cute or adorable to see a woman hitting her husband just like it's not cute or adorable to see a man hitting his wife. Both are disgusting.
We should be teaching kids (both boys and girls) to not hit anyone. If my wife ever took a swing at me she wouldn't be my wife for much longer. That's a serious character defect to use physical violence against another person out of anger.