so my girlfreind/fiance/mother of my child wants to get a tummy tuck. by no means is she fat or anything, she is quite hott and very beautiful. we are both 24. she had a boob job about 2 yrs ago that i was totally against but now love since they were done. i am feeling the same way about this, she doesnt need it/waste of money but i know this is what she wants and will make her happy which in turn makes my life better. in the end i may enjoy the results. i am totally against cosmetic surgery but would be with a girl who would have had 2 while she is in her 20's not my style at all, im not a jersey shore douche who needs a barbie gf. what do you guys think stand my ground and be against it or support her and maybe it turns out like the boobs and im all about it once its done. i dont know what to think about this any advice or similar situations from my buckeye brothers.
I think either way the chicks always get their way in the end right? I say stand your ground as long as you can..but if nothing else can be done just be supportive.
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lol thats fo sure, i added a pic of her so you guys can see what im talking about
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Im not sure what i am looking for... but thanks for the picture of hot girl cleavage.
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From a Buckeye "sister", utimately, it's not your decision. And even if you decide you are against it, what are you going to do about it should she decide to go through with it? Don't paint yourself into a corner that you can't get out of. She might be feeling puffy and matronly, tired and overwhelmed. No easy answers here. And yeah, I realize that you might end up with a lose/lose situation-tell her "sure honey, I support you getting a tummy tuck" can come across to her as you don't like her the way she is. Telling her that you are opposed to it could make you sound overbearing and bossy. Good luck.
"I'll support watever decision you choose as long as you're happy."
I've learned.
....as long as it's not during footbaw! season.
“The teams that don’t respect their coaches and don’t trust their coaches are the teams that go .500"
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What shouldn't get lost is surgery is surgery and should not be taken lightly. It is a tough situation - you're obligated to both speak your mind and be supportive (erring on the side of the latter).
"The revolution will be televised."
If you love her then support her no matter what.
Not a bad looking girl :)
Run_Fido's favorite word is strawman.
I'm glad I'm not in the same spot, though I fear it's on the horizan at my house. I agree with ET on the inherent dangers of surgery. I also know there's no peace if my wife isn't happy. I'd go along with almost anything during football season, but this is a tough call. Say how you feel and thats all you can do.
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For what it is worth, my wife and I have a lot of friends who have had tucks. Most of the women are extremely happy with them, but I think all of them were near 40 or over when they had the procedure. Our only concern would be since she is only 24 is she done having children? The reason most women want tucks is because pregnancy stretches the skin beyond recovery. Tucks do a great job of removing the problem, but if the person is going to have more children the skin will stretch again, possibly requiring another procedure. And, a second stretch on skin that has had a portion removed will tax the remaining tissue just that much more. I'd like to believe a competent Doc would thoroughly discuss this, but in today's world with all the cosmetic clinics cropping up all over, you never know.